Welcome, Miss Pam!
You are never alone in OCF and in these forums. We are an elite club that no one ever wanted to join, but here we are...strangers who have become great friends and the family we always wanted!
There are certainly some people on this forum that have done lots of experimenting with different food textures. ChristineB has a list of "easy to eat foods". I would suggest a crock pot and perhaps the Vitamix blender (OCF has a partnership with them). Here is the link
http://oralcancerfoundation.org/vitamix/...or just go to the main page and you'll see the link.
I hope this helps!
Love in OCF,
Kerri