I read your posts and can relate to how hard it is to wait. I had a two week or so wait for original biopsy results and then about a one and a half week wait for the pathology results after my surgery. It was excruciating because my imagination was just running wild. Most of the scenarios I feared have not come to pass. I didn't have a full half of my tongue removed, so I didn't get the flap done. I had about a third of the right side removed and I had a right neck dissection as well. I also did not require radiation or chemo at this time. I can tell you that I was never one to be able to take things "one step at a time." But I am now. I would say that is one of the good things that have come out of this whole experience. I know it is hard to do, but being able to focus on the next thing one at a time really helped me to keep myself in some peace. I hope all goes well for you. I honestly can tell you that at least for me, it really was not as bad as I had anticipated. I did recover prior to two full months, but I didn't have a flap done. I will keep you in my prayers. Let us know what's going on! Denise