You're very welcome! That's the one thing, chemo can be started immediately, as opposed to surgery sometimes, as I had to wait a month or two for several depending on hospital, doctor, procedure. Don't worry, I speak terrible about most things lol, but I'm more of a rarity as far as my cancer experiences. Sorry about the kids, but you will do fine, and are far ahead than I was. I didn't even know what an oncologist or ENT was when I started.
When I did IC at Mt, Sinai in 2009 you were in the hospital. Now I believe you get a fanny pack for the 5-FU for 4 days. I assume you're going to East 34th Street?
Anyway, good luck, and if you have any questions just ask, and of course your doctors also.
Here is a link to OCF's listing of treatment complications, which you may want to look at. I'm sure a number of staff from the treatment center will speak with you also, and go over what is likely or unlikely to occur, and some have chemo orientation before starting,
http://www.oralcancerfoundation.org/complications/