Thanks all! Selfish? Yep! She got what she wanted & I got stuck with the bill & all the responsibility of handling almost everything, because my sister is so lame! I would do it over & over for my Mom, but having to do it because sis is such a loser just pisses me off! Sibling rivalry? Maybe. I know I'm not the only one here with lame siblings, but it just irritates the crap out of me that I have to hold sis' hand through this while she does nothing & it all seems to be about her loss & what is she going to do without my Mom around. Grow up is what I say! OK, just venting. Erik