Hi Sherry
Writting, going out for sushi, going for walks in nature, talking with family & people with health care knowledge. Going out and eating pretty much every day was a major way Stephen & I found positivity & lightness in the face of the big day. For two frugal people we sure made up for it in our month & a half of sushi splurging!

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I spent the innitial weeks organizing/calling to send medical info, trying to advance appointments & delegating tasks such as food puree preperation & finances to family & friends.

<3 smile

husband 61@diagnosis painter
6/9/13 Exophylic invasive SCC IV(ext.gingivobuccal) 3cm+ mandibular/lytic/erosion, jugular/node9mmshort-axis
17/9/13 Dx(moderately aggressive)
24/10/13 left madiblectomy, mod radical neck disct, leg flap, NGtube
2/01/14 (30 tx)rads 60gy
N2b (2nodes under jaw) (rem. in tiny nerves) (rem. 30 nodes)
Clear margin, close 2mm inner cheek
15/05/14 cellulitis
3/12/14 Chest CT Clear
27/02/15 cellulitis
8/6/15 cellulitis
10/6/15 Osteomyelitis