There are some sound words in these posts. Michael has just come through this and like me, he knows that getting depressed and "weepy' is part of the process. If you were not going through these emotions you wouldn't be normal. The people here will be around when you need them, for sound advice, for a place to speak freely about your emotions and have someone not only listen but relate to your situation, and with support when you need it. One day at a time. They won't all be good. Just get through each one the best you can, and at some point in the future the worst will be in your rearview mirror.


Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.