Thank you all so much. Will take things 1 day (or 1 hour) at a time. Your suggestions will help me to help him to get through the next two weeks- and beyond. Hopefully he will agree to seek treatment for the depression, as I'm sure this will linger.
Tony, Unfortunately Jim was not a big guy and the weight loss has been terrible for him. On the upside- he is looking forward to eating everything sight once he is able, without regard for fat, calories, cholesterol, etc.
With appreciation,
Debbie


Wife to Jim with cervical node T0N1M0 dx 9/2014
Tonsillectomy with multiple bxs (all neg) 10/2014
Erbitux and IMRT started 11/2014
PEG placed 11/2014
Final rad and Erbitux 1/2015
PEG removed 1/2015