Sheryl,

Proven scientific medical science methods have deemed surgery and radiation as the only currently approved treatments to kill oral cancer. There is much data on these treatments and outcomes so you can get as clear as is possible what these options look like.

Are there other treatments that can be at least as effective as say chemo is to slow or even stop further growth of cancers? I'd bet there are but there is not the proven scientific medical science to back it up. There is living proof right here of those who have been branded terminal and continue on far past their expiration date.

Since there are no proven data then it is hard to compare treatment options and make an informed decision when including non traditional options.

With each recurrence, QOL factors become a larger part of the decision criteria. These are very personal choices and decisions. When does one elect for more quality but less time or when does one decide to decide to have more time but with more health issues?

If you have time, it can't hurt to look into alternative treatments knowing most are long shots at best and full of hucksters and scams. I am sure there are some who are ethical and have some basis for their hope and offerings. Sorting them out from the sea of garbage is going to be a big challenge.

If you feel your head can remain above your heart, then look. If you feel your heart might take over, then you are just shark bait and probably better to stay away.

These are very difficult choices so seek support as you can.

Don