i am like yu betsy i had the tounge done with marginal and then they decided a week later to do a neck decection and found the one pinhead and now im watched every month and a pet scan to be done in a few months this is like im living month to month and with no treatment like yu wondr what my yrs ahead will be. also had a bro died like yurs he delt with it for yrs thanks for yur imput hugs rd