Im very sorry for your loss. Thank you for posting. At OCF, we do understand all the horrors of oral cancer and what patients and caregivers endure. You are so right with a daughter should never see the things you have witnessed, no caregiver ever should. Oral cancer is one terrible disease!

May you find some peace in the memories of the happier times you shared with your father. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Best wishes to you and your family.


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile