Paul,

I'm so sorry to hear of your diagnosis. I know it will be an uphill battle for a while, but one well worth the fight to be here for your girls!

I am also 42 with two young girls, 7 years old and 7 months. Although my lymph nodes were negative, I can relate to the shock and depression you are feeling. I think you will find your children the best thing for you. I was and still am determined to be here to raise my girls and see them grow into happy and healthy young ladies. I want to see my grandchildren!! :-) I can't imagine dealing with death everyday and trying to remain positive, but coming home to their little smiling faces will be terrific medicine!

I haven't had to go through radiation therapy, but have seen a lot of posts on this site. Please ask these folks what to do to before, during and after treatments. They have been there and have some excellent advice.

Best wishes to you and your family!

Jennifer