Diana,
My mom was diagnosed in Jan/03 - She had so many setbacks that delayed treatment! I can't even tell you how many times she had to stop rad/and chemo (she still did well) - All I know is that as long as the docs are doing everything they possibly can, treatment should begin as soon as possible - I'm sure the delay won't make too much of a difference (depending on how long it is) Ask the docs whenever you are uneasy about something - My mom would have been going back on the chemo this week, but because of her problem it will be some time before she gets it again - Not having pneumonia is a good thing (it takes forever to clear up) I know what you mean about being a nervous wreck (I AM TOO) Please know that this is awful but in a lot of cases people come out of it and live - I'm sure we will get through this with our mom & dad - Be strong and e-mail me anytime - I'm always looking for someone who understands - My thoughts are with you.
Sue