Dearest Rosie,
I feel so very sad to hear of the loss of your beautiful daughter. After reading the news, I simply sat here not knowing what to do or say, almost not being able to move. Please do know that your honest account of Heather's journey has helped all of us who love and support an oral cancer patient. Everyday I pass along the message of being "committed to the fight" to my dear Aunt Ro as she continues to battle her cancer and the aftermath of her treatment. I do know (as I have lost my most favorite love, my Dad) that there will be a tangible void in your days for some time to come, but your daughter will live forever in your heart (and ours) and forever in your dreams- where you will be able to see her and talk to her always. Forgive me, as I am a devout Catholic...... my prayers are that Heather's soul is whisked on angel's wings to Our Father's home in Heaven where she will forever be safe in His loving sight. God Bless you and yours Rosie. Please take good care of yourself as you go through this transition.

With much love,
Lisa Stankus-DeStefano
Niece/almost daughter to Aunt Rosemary (Stage 3/4 Base of Tongue, Floor of Mouth, Salivary Gland, 1 positive lymph node, STILL FIGHTING!)