Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 7 | Bruce there are some very difficult decisions to make when facing this terrible disease. A second opinion has already been advised, which I will also suggest. The best thing you can do is to get all the info, facts and treatment plans (including a second possibly third opinion), sit down and talk it all over with your family. At some point you will need to put your faith in your medical team and do your very best to look ahead and not "what if".
Best wishes with your difficult choices. ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive |