Jennifer,

It is amazing how everyone is different. Unlike you and Barb, I had no ear pain before, but have it now. I was told that mine is referred pain from my neck dissection and that it will go away when the neck is healed.

Waiting is a terrible thing, but it will more than likely have no effect on the outcome. Certainly, it doesn't hurt to push for a closer date after the results come in. Remember the squeaky wheel gets oiled. I squeaked a hell of a lot and got plenty of oil.

Now is the time to line up family and friends for your post-op time. You'll be amazed at the offers you'll get. You're never too old for a babysitter and you will need much help for you and your children.

It would be very helpful if you tell everyone that knows your situation to go to this link and read about "The Red Balloon Group". http://www.evagrayzel.com/red_balloon.shtml
It is a great way to help them learn how to help you. Eva Grayzel helped me before and after my surgery and we have developed a bond through our mutual experiences. If you want to contact her, email me first.

With family and friends and our support group here, you will get through this major ordeal. It will be tough, but as my wife said to me, "there is no other choice, we will get through this and be stronger for it". We did, and we are.

Good luck with the results of today's tests and keep us posted. During your recuperation it would be great if you could have someone keep us posted on your progress until you can get back to the computer.

Jerry