True that. It is also NOT the human default. Stop paying attention and you will gravitate back to whatever end of the spectrum you tend towards. I'm a type a person which I believe in my heart of hearts switched the cancer ON. I'm still alive having learned a wonderful and powerful lesson about priorities and balance and yet at the two year post mark I find myself falling into the same old habits. I always told my kids "the right thing is rarely the easy thing". If it's hard to stay centered then I guess that's where I need to be