Hi Bud,
I'm due in Surgery for a partial glossectory and neck dissection on Monday 18th Nov. Both my surgeon and speech therapist have said that I will be eating (albeit soft foods) and speaking (albeit a bit slurred) by the time I leave hospital - which should be a 7 - 10 day stay.

My surgeon has also told me to expect weakness and stiffness of the shoulder due to the neck dissection but that physical therapy can help with this.
Let's metaphorically hold each other's hand as we get through this together.
I wish you all the luck in the world
Cheryl