Sorry to hear the biopsy results. Dang HPV got me too. Same age same side. Based on my year on the forum it looks like chemo and rads. The treatment is brutal, but doable. Were coming up on winter and typically there is a lot of stuff to do anyway. Dec and Jan, you may not be feeling to good, so get done what you can now, and line up help as Christine suggested. Keep you chin up, and if you can add a few lbs, it will help. Keep posting and ask questions.

Hockey Dad
43, No smoke, Small BOT HPV+16
8/30/12 Biopsy found SCC in Lymph node (removed)
9/19 DX 4a T1N2aM0
10/1 TX 2x Cisplatin 35 IMRT 70 gry (Done 11/15)
PEG tube in 11/7. Out 1/4, Back at work 2/4/13
PET 2/13 Clear, 10/16 all Scopes Clear, 4/14 Chest X-ray Clear, 5/14 Abdominal ultrasound Clear, 8 yrs clean!!!