Thanks to all of you for sharing your wisdom!
Tina- He is a warrior! He had them take a picture of him with his "Alien Fighting Helmet" so he could post it on his Facebook page. His determination and sense of humor is awesome! It has remained almost constant until now but he is still fighting back!!
We only "found" each other 3 1/2 years ago (even though we went to high school together in the 70's), and we are both determined to defeat these invaders!!!

Caregiver to Tim(Best friend and love of my life)55 years young!!
Small BOT SCC (HPV+) with mets to 2 large and 1 "cluster" of right neck lymph nodes. DX 7/2013
Treatment started 8/2013. Completed 10/9/2013 IMRT 70GY over 31 days X2. Cisplatin X3 No PEG.
PET Scan 1/15/2014 NO Evidence of Disease
5/18/2015 NED with follow up visits to oncologist and Radiation oncologist every 3 months.
Cautiously Optimistic and starting on the journey to recovery!