Bart:

I suspect there's another phrase that applies to you...

...comfortable in his own skin.

I heard that for the first time maybe 10 years ago and it was as profound as your "don't attach to outcomes". It's amazing how many people are not "comfortable" and don't even understand what it means.

And then, out of the blue, having lunch with a new friend, and they say it. It gave me pause, for just a second, happy to know someone else who gets it.

You take care Bart.

P.S. My sister was stationed at Pensacola when in the Navy. She said standing at her kitchen sink she could watch the Blue Angels practice.


Last edited by n74tg; 10-07-2013 03:43 AM. Reason: addition
Tony, 69, non-smoker, aerobatics pilot, bridge player/teacher, avid dancer (ballroom, latin, swing, country)

09/13 SCC, HPV 16, tonsillectomy, T2N0.
11/13 start rads, no chemo
12/13 taste gone, dry mouth,
02/14 hair slowly returning
05/14 taste the same, dry sinuses, irrigation helps.
01/15 food taste about 60% returned, dry sinuses are worse in winter.
12/20 no more sinus problems, taste pretty good