Hi...I am suffering the same symptoms ...I was find for the first 3 months after my radiation but now it seems like my lymphedema is getting worst by the day....it starts in my neck and runs up my cheek...its not terribly painful..but constantly there so it reminds me of the cancer every minute of every day...I really hope It gets better and I can lead a better life..i have an appointment with a Lymphedema massage therapist Monday...praying this will help ease the stiffness / numbness...as I always say...if I need to live with this pain cancer free...I will do so....just afraid its not normal...as everybody that goes through surgery/ chemo/ radiation goes through...so many aches and pains that you constantly worry if its a reoccurrence.....I've noticed this post is a few months old...how is your husband now?