Besides taking breaks and caring for myself, what are some best practices that any of you have used when dealing with a hyper, steroided/chemod up love one? He is not himself. Cold, rude, needy, critical. I haven't lost my cool, yet but man, it's hard to be this patient. He isnt seeming sick, just hyper. Dr said today he has shingles, but youd never know it by sprnding time with him.. i want him to just relax and rest!Thanks so much in advance.

Last edited by auditie; 09-17-2013 02:31 PM.

CG to husband-
4/2013 - lymphoplasmacytic lymphoma & scc hard palate dx
7/2013 Removed tumor from palate + neck dissection T3NO. Has palatal obturator.
4/2022- lymphoplasmacytic lymphoma mutation to Bing Neel syndrome, BTK inhibitor for tx
7/2023 - lung cancer, resolved with radiation