This has gone way beyond a nightmare. Michael is killing me. The stress level that he generates and his constant negativity is very unhealthy. I can only imagine what he's doing to Linda, but if I say anything to him or about him, Linda takes his side and gets mad at me, even though I know that he is stressing her out horribly. Last night we were having a hard time changing the ostomy bag and as Michael got angrier he was yelling at Linda to stop moving around. I mean really nasty yelling. He claims to be a Christian and reads the Bible every night but when things get to that point he starts cursing God and calling Him an "a-hole" for putting us all through this. I tried to get him out of the room last night so I could just take over and do it and he stormed out and Linda immediately got mad at me and demanded that Michael come back in. Maybe I'm wrong and I'm the one being an a-hole. I don't think so but then do a-holes know that they are? Btw, Michael is an adult, he's not a kid though you would never know it. I'm not religious, I don't really believe in any Supreme Being, but I have actually thought about going to see a priest. I have no idea how that would help but I guess it couldn't hurt. While this is a great forum and I love the people here, having this as the ONLY place where I can really say this stuff, well, it's good but I would like to talk face to face with someone. I can't talk to my family as they already6 don't like Michael and never have. I am totally lost here, I have no idea how to deal with this. Thank you all for being here for me.