Hi Pamela - Sooo glad you found this great place to be for the latest and most accurate information, plus the support from knowledgeable people who have been where you are, and can really help ease your mind. Such great advice you have gotten above. I can remember what a bunch of nerves and worry I was when my son first got his diagnosis. I sat at my laptop wanting to google "Sqamous Cell Cancer" and it took me three days before I could even make my fingers do it. I was so afraid of what I would find. It is scary so don't google. Coming here often - even several times a day is what helped me and my son get through his treatment and he is doing just great now, six years later! I use to cry in the car on the way home from seeing my son but crying in the shower is a lot safer and can be very cleansing and relaxing in more ways than one! Let us know how you both are doing.