Thank you all so much for the kind words and advice.
We did hear nothing but good things about his doctor, which is good because they won't refer him out.
On Tuesday he gets the biopsy of his tongue and more than likely his tonsils removed.
We are ready to take on the fight, I told him to come yo this site, he may when treatment starts.

When chemo and radiation starts will he be basically bed ridden? His mom is coming to help care for him, since we have two young girls. All the women caring for him may drive him crazy!

Any other suggestions to help care for him?