Hi Monica,

I was stage 3, and my tumour grew very fast as well. Because of the size (5 cm when removed) surgery was required, and I was told chemo and radiation would be necessary due to a positive PET scan for lymph nodes.

So they took a little over half my tongue, but the nodes came back clear. They are watching me closely for recurrence but for now I have not had to undergo radiation. Based on everything I have learned about radiation (mostly from here), if I had to do it all again and had a choice, I would opt for the surgery. There is a chance radiation would not be required once they removed the tumour (as with me).

It has not been easy, but I was back working in less than a month, and if you didn't know me before, you wouldn't think I had surgery. My speech is about 90%, and I live my life normally albeit with some adjustments.

Whatever you choose, there will always be a nagging fear of recurrence, so don't let that dictate your treatment. Do what you feel is right in consultation with your team, and know that we will be behind you.

Good luck!