Diane - Of course - I totally agree. Paul is with you, loving you and comforting you. I've had too many things happen to me with passed-on love ones to believe otherwise. One of my earliest moments was when I was expecting my third child and way past due. I had a favorite uncle named Paul who had died of cancer several years earlier and I hadn't thought of him in a long while. One evening before I fell asleep, and worried about when my baby would finally make an appearance, my uncle Paul came to me in a dream and all he said was that I would deliver a baby boy in one week. Exactly one week later, to the hour, my son was born. Of course we named him Paul (see my signature below).