You are so right about Paul - he was sending a message that he is still with you. My son, who drowned while on vacation in Cancun Mexico (29-years old) sent me a message that was just out of the blue. I was lying on my sofa with my little doggie watching TV one evening (months after the drowning), and not even thinking of him, when I thought I saw a movement on the other side of the room by French doors leading to the balcony. They had blinds closed, I looked, saw nothing, and then I felt a slight breeze go by my face and smelled the smell my son had when he showered, his soap. The scent was really strong, and I didn't even have that type soap in my condo. It made me smile! I am sure he had come to visit me. Like your episode, there is absolutely no way to explain it other than what it was: Paul was sending a message that he is still with you.

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julieann