Thanks Paul and Cheryld. I will take your suggestions.
Any question suggestions? I got the basics
1. What is the verdict and my choices
2. If surgery needed, Recovery process, What it will be like after surgery?
3. Letter for disability needed?
4. Care for tongue after surgery.
5. Physical, swallowing, speech therapy
6. Surgery date is set for Fri.1/18 and Plastic Surgeon said he doesn't do surgery Fridays. Can it be switched so reconstruction can be done at time of removal?
7. What to do if complications occur once home-who to call?
8. Can I be tested for HPV?
9. Recommended foods to avoid once a Cancer diagnosis has been made?
10. Pain medication plan.

Anyone got any other questions that might be useful?
Much appreciation.