I'm so very sorry to hear this news, Wendy. Watching a loved one go through this is heartbreaking. I know you are doing everything you can; just be there for and with him, soak up every moment, and come back here for comfort and support when you are able. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Amy CG to mom Janet - diag w/ early SCC 8/11-surg w/ rad neck dissect & graft from arm/thigh 9/11-evid in nodes tx 6 wks rads (5/wk) w/cistplatin (1/wk for 6 wks) began 11/11-wk or 2 break 12/11 due to severe side effects-done 1/12- 3/23/12 mets to liver lung bone-hospice 4/7/12-lost fight 4/22/12