Good Morning David,

You are not alone in being scared. My husband is scheduled for a partial glossectomy with reconstruction surgery. They are taking part of his throat as well. His is stage II. You will learn that the stage is not a death sentence. It's only a way of measuring the cancer. He already has a laryngectomy with a permanent stoma (trach). That happened in 2007 on the second go round with the big "C". This is his third time having cancer. The first was in the soft palate.

It is important to try and seek treatment, whatever it may be, at a Comprehensive Care Center. I'm not familiar with Virginia but I'm there is one in the area. Second opinions and the best possible care can change the outcome.

Quality of life doesn't have to be compromised. My husband has manage very well with the lary. His voice is as strong and very close to what he used to sound like before the surgery. It's a little inconvenient at times but git beats the alternative.

They will be doing this next surgery of the tongue and throat and then reconstruct what is removed with what is called a free flap from his thigh. The surgeon tells us that he will be able to eatr, drink and talk once he heals and has some therapy. Granted, it will not be easy for several month but he will make it. He is already looking forward to us returning to our motorhome for travel.

Good Luck and come here often. Lot's of helpful information and caring people.