Thanks and sorry Christine ( deleted the info that I copied and pasted) I will email the link of OCF to the inlaws and they can decide what to do. I am so certain that they are in denial and don't want to know what the diagnosis and prognosis of Joyce is. When I attempted to say something, they say that what if that happened to your Dad. So after that exchange of words I won't say much to them.

Joyce March 1940 to January 2014
A wife, a mother, grandmother and great grandmother.
She fought oral cancer from late 2009 to Early 2014.
2 Timothy 4:7 I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.