Another really good book is "How to Survive the Loss of a Love". It's for any kind of loss, whether it's a person or a former way of life, etc. It's a very small book easy to read no matter what page you happen to land on and it's available at Amazon through OCF site:
http://www.amazon.com/?ie=UTF8&%2AVersion%2A=1&tag=oralcancfoun-20&link_code=hom&%2Aentries%2A=0
I like the original version which was smaller and have gotten several copies at the used book store over the years to give to friends and to students I had. It really helped me when I was going through divorce and it actually encouraged me to start my own survivor journal.


Anne-Marie
CG to son, Paul (age 33, non-smoker) SCC Stage 2, Surgery 9/21/06, 1/6 tongue Rt.side removed, +48 lymph nodes neck. IMRTx28 completed 12/19/06. CT scan 7/8/10 Cancer-free! ("spot" on lung from scar tissue related to Pneumonia.)