Sandy - Stories (humorous or not) are a great idea! Your experiences could be very helpful to others out there, contemplating jumping into the pool. You might end up publishing your own "How-To" manual!! You could also start by making an outline of the "someone special" with the qualities you most admire and then let the universe take care of it for you (or see what the online dating site comes up with). It is so encouraging to see you taking charge and looking forward to a new wonderful life!!