Hi debbie, god doesn't comfort us to make us comfortable but to make us comforters. Being a caregiver is an amazing thing to be, having someone who understands is a great blessing for ourselves. Being someone who understands is a great blessing to others. You are a blessing. Make sure to take good care of yourself, just as you have taken such good care of others. God loves us so much and wants the best for us. We are all so special in gods eyes. We are each of us angels with only one wing, and we can only fly embracing each other.