Ellen, sorry to read about your own psychological problems and I hope you can get help with them. But mainly I'm delighted that your husband is through the worst and had a clear PET. Sounds to me that you can finally begin your new life together. We all know how tough it is to get through this stuff, but having you there was and is as important as any of the medical stuff, IMO.

I hope you have a wonderful holiday and bright new year.

David 2
SCC of occult origin 1/09 (age 55)| Stage III TXN1M0 | HPV 16+, non-smoker, moderate drinker | Modified radical neck dissection 3/09 | 31 days IMRT finished 6/09 | Hit 15 years all clear in 6/24 | Radiation Fibrosis Syndrome kicked in a few years after treatment and has been progressing since | Prostate cancer diagnosis 10/18