Hi Dave, I am sure you have come to the right place here to get a lot of support and experience sharing.My case is very much similar to yours with left tonsil cancer met.to left neck lymph nodes. It was diagnosed as stage 4B cancer in 9/01. I have survived after intensive radiation and chemotherapy. No neck surgery. E-mail me direct if you want to hear more about my story.
Karen stage 4 tonsil caner diagnosed in 9/01.