Hi Wendy, welcome to OCF. I know you are going thru all kinds of emotions right now. Its quite a shock when you get that diagnosis! This may not be something you would normally do but soon you will see this site is very helpful. I know I was shocked when I first was told I had cancer, it didnt fit into my schedule. Somehow cancer has a way of making itself a priority even when its not convenient. You will adapt, we will help you.

You have found the very best place for guidance. We are a large group of patients both current and former along with caregivers. We have been where yo are and understand what you are going thru. Just remember everyone is different and responds in their own unique way to treatments and medications. Some of us sail right thru while others struggle with even the simplest of things.

The best advice I can give you is to go to a cancer center for the best treatment you can get. At the bottom of this post is a list of cancer centers.

At this time you should try to build your weight up. If you require further treatment such as radiation, most likely you will lose weight. Eat everything you crave and try for a balanced high calorie diet.

Round up everyone you can to get help. Now is not the time to be proud. If someone asks what they can do to help, write down their name and number and let them know you will contact them when you need help. Some friends will become even better friends while others will head for the hills when they see someone with a serious illness. I hope you are fortunate and have good friends and family who will be there every step of the way. Take someone with you to appointments. Everyone can use another set of ears. Write your questions down so you dont forget. Some even tape record the session so they can play it back later.

Best wishes with everything you are facing.


Cancer Centers