I hear you peeps...No, they didn't see him going through rads & chemo, whilst I was driving him to the hosp 35+ times in 7 weeks, they were too busy abusing me. The younger one walked straight past me as I walked into the elevator and she walked out. It was harder then, it's not so hard for me to wipe it all out now, we are so in love, it's taken 6 years but after being married for 2 years, and travelling the journey we have travelled, I am nmber 2 in his life...he is number one in his life....dumb people - family or not, should be put in a special 'ignorance prison'!!