Joanna, thank you for your response to my inquiry. I can't believe how fortunate we were that this has all happened so quick. From hearing other peoples stories on this site and elsewhere, I think we were incredibly blessed it happened as fast as it did.

Since it happened so fast we didn't have much time to think about it and that is why I put the question out there. I figured that we were doing the right thing but, you never know. This is the first time and it makes your head spin a bit and your thoughts are scattered (I am sure I am not alone). Two friend's husbands had cancer, one passed away 3 months ago, and my mother had breast cancer 4 years ago (she is thriving). I guess I didn't expect to have this happen to my spouse husband, who is 40. But then again, who does? No one.

I am hoping my husband will check out this site. Unfortunately, he has not been interested in checking things out. He has the Dr's to tell him what to do and he is going with that. I will send him this direction when he is ready to know more, I think he will need it.

Thank you again. Peace, Kathy