Hi Chris,
I wish it was easier for you. It's been a rollercoaster ride and you've had so many other things going on. I am so sorry.

We had/have a bit of it here.

Keep hanging in there. It isn't you and it isn't him. It's the disease. Even those with NED have anger issues, PTSD, mid-life crisis on steroids because of the treatment, etc. Will he consider an anti-depressant/anti-anxiety medication?

It makes me sad that he is spending so much time and energy being angry. Seems like a horrible waste, to me. I hope he's able to get it under control.

Sending hugs,

Sandy
xoxox

Ex-spouse MISDIAGNOSED with SCC-HN IVa 12/10. Tonsils out 1/11. 4 teeth out 2/11. TX Erbitux x2, IMRT x2 2/11. 2nd opinion-benign BCC-NOT CANCER 3/11. TX stopped 3/11. New doctors 4/11. ENT agrees with 2nd opinion 5/11. ENT scoped him-all clear 7/11. Ordered MRI anyway. MRI 8/22/11 Result-all clear.