Cazz,

I too would like to welcome you to this forum. Like you, I do not have cancer myself - but my husband does, so I am also searching for answers, and have found this site to be very informative and the people here very supportive, warm and caring. It's not easy watching a loved one go through these ordeals - but I have found by the many times I have been here - that even when things seem bleak, and when you least expect it - positive things do happen! When I found out my husband had cancer - I cried all the time (in private) and found it almost impossible to concentrate on work and day-to-day activities. Being here in the forum has been a great source of strength for me and I hope you also find the encouragment, support, friendship and last but not least -HOPE that we all need, as I have found. You and your brother are in my thoughts. Please keep us posted on how he is doing.