Most cancer patients will not know if their cancer has spread. HPV isnt something that you can look at and tell its there. Only thru a test would it be determined that you have it. It sounds like there is alot of confusion as to whats going on. Make an appointment with a cancer center and start from square one. Let a whole team of specialists evaluate you and determine whats happening. Im sure you will be able to get into a top center in the NY area.

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Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile