Welcome Ray,
Ray, my tumor was base of tongue with neck nodes so someone else can probably give you more specifics concerning tonsils. My treatment consisted of 4 weeks of light chemo, and about 40 radiation treatments...which you will receive. I was given pain pills, but after 3 weeks of radiation I could no longer swallow food or pills and I was prescribed Duralgesic pain patches. They come in various strenghths...I went from 25s to 75s and back to 25s as I was weaning myself.
I got my PEG after 3 weeks of radiation. I have now been through with treatments for 3 months and am still dependent on the tube. I can swallow liquids including broth and today drank a whole can of boost for the first time. Some people heal more quickly from the PEG, but the docs always commented on how burned up I was from the radiation. Radiation is painless while you are recieving it, but it does take its toll. The worst time is the first week or two after the treatment ends.
So, don't feel bad about the PEG..it is great as it will allow you to keep your weight at a decent level. Just know that it is a long process and have patience...you have no choice anyway. Lastly, stay in touch with us. I found this board at my low point after radiation treatment and I found more comfort here than I did from a psychologist or from the support groups that I found. One last bit of advice...meet the social worker at your hospital, and get a list of resources...support groups, free counselling, etc, and take advantage of it if you need it . I know that you have a wonderful , free medical system in Canada so take advantage of it...I wish you all the best. Please keep us updated.

Danny G.