Hi Warren,

I completely understand the fear and uncertainty you and your wife are feeling. Our daughter was 6 months old when Ken was diagnosed. We were fortunate to have lots of family and friends around to help. I hope you are able to rely on others a little as well. Please let your wife know that she can contact me if she has any questions or just needs to vent. Being a caregiver can sometimes be more difficult than being the patient. I used this site a lot to vent and to listen to other's stories to realize I could get through it. Your baby will help you get through each day as well. I swear our daughter gets us through the dark times with her smile.

Our thoughts are with you.

Jill


Jill..CG to Ken, age 43,mom of 1yr old girl.
DIAG:12/9/10 SCC BOT T4N0M0 HPV+
START:1/3/11 IMRT dailyX35 and 7 chemo
END:2/23/11 PEG IN:1/15/11 Out:4/26/11
CT/MRI 4/25/11-marked improvement CT 6/11 new spots
BX 6/23-cancer present
Total Glossectomy sched 7/20/11
7/19/11 Ken's suffering ended