Karen - Cream of Wheat also comes in chocolate (at least during my "cream of wheat days"). Really good with a little sugar. As for grits, and as a transplanted southernized yankee, I'm not too keen on the taste. Some people here put sugar on it and others put butter and swirl it around with eggs from what I've observed.
When we first moved here, (having heard about "grits"), my then husband and I went to a restaurant for breakfast. When the waitress came, he said "I'll have one grit". (his wry sense of humor) Needless to say, he did not bond with the waitress - So you really cannot order just one. Sorry.