Welcome to OCF. As you can see from the previous posts, this site is populated with lots of wonderful, giving people who share their knowlege and experiences to help you through your own. At this stage of things I can not add much to the posts which are above, only to say that in my own experience, and with most others, malignant nodes are not usually painful. Of course this is not an absolute. We wish your husband quick and successful treatments and a return to a normal life for both of you in the future.

Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.