benfry, so sorry to hear about your dad.. my dad also was diagnosed with floor of mouth and tongue cancer, it didn't get to his jaw, but they took it anyways.. because as they explained it was "knocking at the door".. they also removed lymphnodes on both sides.. reconstructed with fibula which was used as his floor of the mouth.. i will not lie to you it is extremely emotional and a long road ahead, BUT i look at it as they are still here with us fighting, and we will stand by them.. please keep us posted.. in my thoughts and prayers always..
please feel free to private message me with any questions..
prayers out to you..
nicki