Stay positive and strong! Think the best until you hear the worst, that is my motto. If they still can opperate and fix it than that is good! Like I told Ron, until you hear those words "terminal" than you go on living! And we have not heard those words dammit so LIVE! Print off some survivor stories and let him read how they felt and went through tough surgeries and how they are happy to be alive after all they have gone thru. I'm hoping Ron will read the ones I printed off and set downstairs for him where he sits and watches TV. He hasn't been down there since I did that, he's been outside doing odds and ends, he seems a bit more happy today or more relaxed, I'm sure he's not happy bout the news but I think maybe he is realizing how important it is to fight this and to live. It's going to be rough, we made it through 1 we can do it again together! Never give up!