Hi there! What Eric said is true - try not to freak... And bad choices don't necessarily lead to HPV - you could get it with your first and only lover... Depending on his/ her history. Your fianc� may also have HPV unrelated to you. It might be good to have it checked.

And if the situation persists do go to a cancer hospital and have yourself checked at their head and neck clinic.

Good luck,,, you do know if something's wrong so be persistent until you get answers.